It’s Time to Stop Almost Becoming Her — and Start Living as Her.

Imagine Who You Could Be If Nothing Was Holding You Back.…

  • Following through on the goals you set — without sabotaging them when fear or self-doubt creeps in.

  • Trusting yourself to stay consistent — not just in bursts of motivation, but for the long run.

  • Finally building momentum in your business or passion project — instead of circling in the “almost there” phase.

  • Breaking the unconscious patterns that keep pulling you back into overwhelm, overthinking, or playing small.

  • Making bold, aligned decisions with clarity and confidence — instead of questioning every move.

  • Living from your future identity — not the old version of you that was never meant to hold the life you want.

  • Showing up fully in relationships, work, and life — no longer hiding parts of yourself to feel safe or accepted.

  • Feeling deeply worthy of the success, freedom, and joy you’ve always envisioned — and actually allowing yourself to receive it.

  • Creating lasting change — because you’ve rewired it into who you are, not just what you do.

Life Coach Nicole Cowley dancing in a blush coloured dress and heels

I’m here to tell you that is all possible!

Hypnotherapist Nicole smiles with her hands clasped together wearing a white top, black skirt, tights and boots.

So much of what shapes our choices, actions, and outcomes isn’t logic — it’s the subconscious programming running beneath the surface. It’s why you can know what you “should” do but still fall back into old patterns… why you tell yourself you’ll change, yet nothing truly sticks.

The truth is, lasting transformation doesn’t happen by trying harder — it happens when you change the beliefs, stories, and identity that are driving the behavior in the first place.

That’s where coaching and hypnotherapy come in. Together, they rewire the subconscious patterns keeping you stuck, so you can finally think, feel, and be the woman who creates the life you know is meant for you.

Hypno-coach Nicole Cowley leans against a wall wearing a white button down shirt and jeans

Meet Nicole

Hi, I’m Nicolean Identity Reinvention Coach, Certified Hypnotherapist, and the creator of Unleash Your Inner Diamond™, a transformational coaching experience for high-achieving women who feel stuck in the cycle of almost getting what they want — only to get pulled back into self-doubt, overwhelm, or old patterns.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” — reading the books, taking the courses, even hiring the coaches — and yet nothing seems to stick, I want you to know this: there’s nothing wrong with you. Truly, nothing. You’re simply living from an old identity that was never designed to hold the future you’re trying to create. And that’s exactly where my work begins.

My own transformation started in the midst of a life I didn’t see coming. I had stepped away from a leadership role in my family’s thriving multi-generational business to become a stay-at-home mom — a choice made from love, but one that slowly eroded my sense of self. And when my marriage ended unexpectedly, I was left with no income, no plan, and no idea who I was beyond the roles I had poured myself into.

That moment — the one that could have broken me — became the catalyst for everything that came next. I rebuilt my life from the inside out, rewiring old beliefs, reclaiming my confidence, and stepping into a future aligned with who I truly am. And now, it’s my mission to guide other women through that same evolution.

Today, I help ambitious, growth-minded women — those who may look “successful” on the outside but feel stuck, exhausted, or uncertain of what’s next — finally create confidence, clarity, and fulfillment that last. Most of the women I work with have already done so much to change, but lasting transformation continues to feel just out of reach.

Through a powerful blend of identity reinvention, subconscious reprogramming, embodiment practices, and personalized hypnosis tracks, I help my clients stop repeating the past and become the woman who can sustain the life she’s meant to live. Together, we dissolve lifelong patterns, rewrite limiting beliefs, and move beyond the frustrating cycle of almost:

✨ Almost building the business they dream about — launching something meaningful but never quite gaining the traction, consistency, or success they know is possible.
✨ Almost believing they’re worthy of more — but shrinking back when fear or old stories resurface.
✨ Almost creating the life they envision — but convincing themselves it’s too late, too risky, or too unrealistic.

My clients learn to lead from identity, not willpower — and as a result, they stop falling back into old patterns and start living as the most powerful, peaceful, and purposeful version of themselves.

I’m also a founding member of the Los Angeles Tribune Women’s Journal and a sought-after speaker known for my authenticity, depth, and ability to guide women home to themselves.

And here’s what I know for sure: when a woman remembers who she truly is, she doesn’t just change her life — she changes everything around her. If you’re ready to stop almost becoming the woman you know you’re meant to be… let’s begin.

What Clients Are Saying

“When I met Nicole, I was in survival mode. My son had just been diagnosed with MS, I’d closed my clinic, and I was holding it all together on the outside while falling apart inside. I’d forgotten who I was. Nicole walked beside me and reminded me of my own strength. I let go of what no longer served me, reclaimed my calm in the storm, and found joy again. She met me where I was, showed me the path, and walked it with me. I will forever be grateful.”
Sarah

“I’ve had several therapists over the years, but my experience with Nicole far exceeded them all. She came prepared for every session, gave me homework that kept me accountable, and crafted personalized hypnosis sessions that were life-changing. I committed to the process, and today I’m living a major transformation. Nicole’s work is practical, powerful, and deeply personal. I highly recommend her.”
William

Working with Nicole was a gift. I came to her for business goals, but she helped me with so much more: health, mindset, limiting beliefs, vision, even my perfectionism. Her hypnosis sessions shifted my mindset completely. The results will stay with me for life. I’ve changed how I show up in my family, my business, and my future. This was life-changing.”
Jen

“I started with Nicole when I felt lost in every area of my life — health, marriage, friendships, work. She held me with compassion, gave me powerful tools, and always followed up with recaps, prompts, and support. The hypnosis and affirmations shifted everything. I feel whole again, and my zest for life is back. I truly believe Nicole came into my life at the time I needed her most.”
Sarah A.

“I’ve faced cancer five times. In the past, fear and anger ran my life. Working with Nicole has been completely different. She helps me unearth lifelong patterns, release trauma, and step into courage. I’m facing mortality head-on, but I feel more peaceful, self-loving, and resilient. Nicole is compassionate, unbiased, and deeply skilled. I’ve already recommended her to my partner and my sister. If you’re ready to break patterns and live fully, she’s the one to guide you.”
Wanda